
The notes stay with that family, and with a writer who came to the film after meeting Deaf people and thinking again about what it means not to hear.
The notes take up Beyond Silence, a 1996 film directed by Caroline Link. The writer had long assumed that not hearing would be easier to bear than not seeing, or not walking. After meeting Deaf people, that view shifted. Communication, they write, is often harder for them than for others.
They remember a person on a bus, talking in sign on a video call, and the later thought that such talk is harder at night, when there is no light. Wanting to understand that life, they turned to books and films. Among many, one household stood out.
The film, they write, is set in southern Germany. The parents are Deaf. The child born to them is the family’s only hearing person, and the story follows that child as she talks with her parents and with the world outside.
The child is Lara. From a young age she works as their interpreter. Her parents are glad she is there, and are happy. At school the life is different. Friends know her parents are Deaf, laugh at that, and will not keep company with her.
Even without a disability, the notes write, it can already be hard to talk with one’s parents. Watching Lara keep at that talk, they felt drawn in. They hoped, too, for a change in the society around such a family.
They wanted to sit with what the story moved in them. The same Korean notes, written out more fully, are on CampusDown.
Last updated 15 November 2026
The writer had assumed that not hearing was easier to bear than not seeing or not walking, then met Deaf people and changed that view. Sign language on a video call, and the fact that such talk is harder in the dark, stayed with them. Among many films, one household stood out.
She is the family’s only hearing child, in southern Germany. From a young age she works as interpreter for her Deaf mother and father, who are glad to have her. School is different: classmates know her parents are Deaf, laugh, and will not sit with her.
Even hearing children can find it hard to talk with their parents. Watching Lara keep trying moved them, and made them hope for a change in how such families are met.
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